Many people around me have been witnessing some confusion with each other. Some are (perhaps) intelligent enough to let things not affect their different spheres of life because of these issues while others are just the opposite. I would refer to three people in this post who have been witnessing ups and downs lately
1. Person A:
Apparent: This guy has been always surrounded by his friends, or let me put it this way...same set of friends since prep school. The happy go lucky character in true sense believes to live life in the fast lane. He loves to enjoy the moment with tons of unpredictable fun.
Real and why: Since he was always with the same set of friends, he was never able to get the exposure to face the real world in which one actually should know how to deal with strangers and more importantly, your near and dear ones.
Problem: Can’t see friends going across the continent for long and was ignorant of how to deal with the first time misunderstanding with a friend.
2. Person B:
Apparent: Fun loving girl, very hard working and sensitive. Takes precautions at every step and loves her friends, loves to extra care about them. She tries to think from her brains but always falls for her heart.
Real and why: Apparent her is very much her real character.
Problem: Again, overprotected. Things affect her heart (the place where she thinks form) which in turn ruins her own mental health. This makes her curse the time and fate. We all know what we think eventually becomes a fake reality for us.
3. Person C:
Apparent: Here comes a female who I go up to when in doubts and she clears all my problems in no time. Sensible and mature girl who knows the lessons of life including all do’s and don’ts for both boys and girls.
Real: Here again she is no different from her apparent self.
Problem: Thinks more than the required amount over certain issues and gives importance to petty issues which will never have any sort of influence in her life.
The ways in which these three differ from me is just the difference in the way I perceive things. Sometimes I consider myself lucky to have a laid back attitude in which I let things go and be the way it is. On the contrary occasionally I also doubt myself if such an attitude is correct in life. There’s obviously no answer to this dilemma right now as I am not leading any ideal life like the saints. So I guess I should let things go the way they are going(smoothly ...for me now!)
I am sure that I will laugh over this post later in life when I will be old and comment “How silly of me to think too much about petty college issues.”
Friday, August 8, 2008
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who said u've a laid bak attitude?
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